Saturday, February 18, 2006


I know it’s a vague and weird topic to write about, thus I do feel challenged. But I wanted to write about this with the aim of expressing and knowing what people think of this. Everytime I ask someone…so what’s your definition of stupidity, they say “HUH??”
“Excuse me?”etc, and other connotations of surprise.

Well I find that we easily tag an action or person as STUPID. What is studpidity? Why are we so judgemental? Its natural I agree. I use the word ‘stupid’ really easily. But then it struck me, that its not fair to label someone stupid without reason. For eg if someone called u stupid, u may not take to it very kindly. Cause even tho words like stupid, dumb etc aren’t “abusive” ,they are effective.

Now there is no point of writing on stupidity. So then why am I writing this??!!! Probably cause I just want to people to realize that we need to be sensitive to such words and use it discretely..even mentally.

I think there are two ways to look at a situation. The other day a classmate was explaining something in an incomprehensive manner. So I asked her to repeat it and she said “eh..your’e just stupid” I said “what??” I shook my head cause I didn’t want to say..your doing communicative eng but cant communicate!!! That;s rude..and then I’ll become her. I was angry but didn’t want to fight. But my sudden silence made her realize that that statement wont be forgotten and that I’ve lost my respect for her. I could’ve started an argument..but I found it amusing:) lol…she’s being stupid..not me.

When Julia Roberts came on the Oprah Winfrey Show, she said, there’s one thing I hate. I hate stupid people. I was laughing when she said this…but its true. We hate stupidity…because …well>? I dunno..we just do!

I think we rate a situation or a person as stupid by our own stupidity. What we feel is stupid and if another doesn’t agree..well then they’re stupid. Our judgements and wavelengths differ from people. And when people don’t get us, we brand them as stupid.

Today a friend of mine was put in a stituation which she didn’t explore enough. Thus lost out. I said to myself..that gal is so stupid!! This is cause I would’ve explored..and so I’m judging her by my standards.
Its unfair..but I’ll still think she behaved in a stupid manner.
So I’m working within me to control these ‘stupid’ labels and be more I said before..even I dunno the point of this post..just expressed my feelings..and want to know yours..confused myself LOL!!

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

"When we meet someone and fall in love,
we have a sense that the whole universe is on our side.
I saw this happen today as the sun went down.
And yet if something goes wrong, there is nothing left!

No herons, no distant music, not even the tast of his lips.

How is it possible for the beauty that was there only minutes
before, to vanish so quickly.

Life moves very fast. It rushes us from heaven to hell in a matter
of seconds."

-'Eleven Minutes' by Paulo Coelho

Saturday, February 11, 2006

To My Best Friend Spu!!

I can still see us arguing and fighting.
I can taste those birthday cakes.
I can still hear your dog barking at me.
Gone are those days.

Funny…they’re still with me.

In the hardest places you found me.
I resisted pain. You were my shield.

I broke. You waited.
When our places reversed, I did the same.

Through our weaknesses and shortcomings.
Through our fears and silliness.
We passed.
Passed with flying colours.

A path of laughter and tears.
Nurtured for 14 years.

My strength and courage faltered,
but u stood strong and tall.
But surprise gripped me when u needed
me most of all.


I guess we complement each other.
Its brought us so far together.

Emotions and words get mixed up.
When I try to write about us.

But hey! This path of laughter and tears,
has been nurtured for 14 years.

I guess nothing else matters.

Thursday, February 02, 2006

8 points for thee man!;)

I was tagged by Ramses, Squirm and alive_n_confused !!


1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention the sex of the target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment on their comments saying they’ve been tagged.
4. If tagged the 2nd time, there’s no need to post again.

Hm….maybe this is for my much ‘commented’ about “sexy stranger’’..
Well here goes..will be cliché but hey I’m tired....and tomo is some ‘virus-hitting-beaware-of ur priceless data-may crash’ day according to TOI so I’m ‘playing’ safe (ref. previous post for pun on playing;p) and finishing this TAG!! Specifying the gender: MALE

1. He must not be too egoistic..will clash with my my name suggests!
2. Should not be afraid to show compassion…to whoever it is- eg. Old lady crossing a street, a kid, a dog ..etc
3. Should not flush and flare nostrils if I say “You’re so gay!!”, therefore should be secure of his masculinity!
4. Laugh at my stupid jokes and make me laugh at his.
5. Be romantic:)..its never clichéd if its genuine and unique. Be sexy;)
6. Be independent and non-clingy! Should respect space and trust me like I would.
7. Share interests in doing things together yet have his own set of personal time-pass hobbies! His own identity
8. Be my best fren above all:)

i just realised i've been extremely clean so has everyone else..LOL;) why spoil it..ahahaha

oh..everyone reading this pls beware of the virus 'kamasutra' (i know...) that's supposed to hit on Feb 3rd (tomo.) and it infects ur beware and u know u've been attacked when everything 'freezes' and u have to 'reboot'!