Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Respect

Respect.

No other word to substitute it.

Seldom appreciated, respecting one’s space is so crucial. It’s the one thing that can break relationships. Love and trust can’t make up for respect.

Cause with respect comes the above two elements…

I believe that every time someone infringes your space, your area… by imposing their views, a radar does go off. Internally.
But we don’t always react.

I don’t. several times, I’ve let it pass.

This is wrong. I should’ve stopped it when it was crossing limits. Instead I have an outburst. Its like I run out patience and then BOOM!

After that I have zilch feelings for that person. I become cold and unaffected. There’s no good or bad feeling towards him or her.

That’s just me…

But I guess I should learn not to let it get to that stage in the first place!

5 comments:

Rach said...

i know, what u mean... it's like, all along, you just expect it to cure itself... but it seldom does!

People seldom realise something, untill u point it to them, and that is exactly the toughest part, i feel!

Don't worry... just keep ur own self in check..,. and u'll be able to tell ppl to stop, at the right time than get to such an extreme! :)

Was good hearing from you, after so long :) :) :)

Ubiquitous said...

Knock knock.

Just came to check on you.

Still feeling that way?

I'm sure the person means so much to you for you to write this post, despite saying you feel 'zilch'. Do you, really? :)

Hugs!

the_ego_has_landed said...

~rach- :) thanks man!

I need to blog more often. I think im lazy when im not working, and tied up when i am working! lol

Good to know, you know how I feel

~ubi- its not just one person :) and yeah i do feel nothing for things in the past. But it hasn been easy. thanks for checking :)

Pranay said...

I agree....Respect is probably the most important thing in any relationship. But what is also that important is 'communication'.
I believe in this and I've learnt it the hard way.
So talk.
Problems don't go away by themselves and they don't go away by fighting either. Only talking.

Peace...:)

the_ego_has_landed said...

~pranay- Dunno why I forgot to comment on this... yeah... we spoke.. and are slowly talking now.. :)